Child Therapy/ Adolescent Therapy

Play is a child’s language. The act of play and expression allows a child or adolescent make sense of who they are, their feelings and the world.

  • Child Therapy / Play Therapy

    Aimee Anderson, LMFT

    David Benavidez, LMFT

    Sarah Hernandez, Counseling Resident

    Jacob Baxter, Counseling Resident

    Lori Gregory, LMFTA

  • Teen Therapy / Adolescent Therapy

    Aimee Anderson, LMFT

    Lindsay Long, LMFT

    Christopher Vo, LMFT

    David Benavidez, LMFT

    Sarah Hernandez, Counseling Resident

    Jacob Baxter, Counseling Resident

    Lori Gregory, LMFTA

  • Co-Parenting Therapy / Sibling Therapy

    Aimee Anderson, LMFT

    David Benavidez, LMFT

    Sarah Hernandez, Counseling Resident

    Jacob Baxter, Counseling Resident

    Lori Gregory, LMFTA

Our team of mental-health professionals have extensive experience in all kinds of situations involving children, including:

  • School performance and attitude

  • Self-esteem and confidence issues

  • Positive, respectful behavior at home and at school

  • Social interaction

  • Bullying situations

  • Conflicts with family, friends and teachers

  • Abuse — physical and emotional

  • Psychiatric issues including obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and attention-deficit disorder (ADD)

  • Substance abuse

Play Therapy

Play therapy is a structured, theoretically based approach to therapy that builds on the normal communicative and learning processes of children. The curative powers inherent in play are used in many ways. Therapists strategically utilize play therapy to help children express what is troubling them when they do not have the verbal language to express their thoughts and feelings. In play therapy, toys are like the child's words and play is the child's language. Through play, therapists may help children learn more adaptive behaviors when there are emotional or social skills deficits. The positive relationship that develops between therapist and child during play therapy sessions can provide a corrective emotional experience necessary for healing. Play therapy may also be used to promote cognitive development and provide insight about and resolution of inner conflicts or dysfunctional thinking in the child.

... toys are the child's words!

Initially developed in the turn of the 20th century, today play therapy refers to a large number of treatment methods, all applying the therapeutic benefits of play. Play therapy differs from regular play in that the therapist helps children to address and resolve their own problems. Play therapy builds on the natural way that children learn about themselves and their relationships in the world around them. Through play therapy, children learn to communicate with others, express feelings, modify behavior, develop problem-solving skills, and learn a variety of ways of relating to others. Play provides a safe psychological distance from their problems and allows expression of thoughts and feelings appropriate to their development.

How Does Play Therapy Work?

Children are referred for play therapy to resolve their problems. Often, children have used up their own problem solving tools, and they misbehave, may act out at home, with friends, and at school. Play therapy allows trained mental health practitioners who specialize in play therapy, to assess and understand children's play. Further, play therapy is utilized to help children cope with difficult emotions and find solutions to problems. By confronting problems in the clinical Play Therapy setting, children find healthier solutions. Play therapy allows children to change the way they think about, feel toward, and resolve their concerns. Even the most troubling problems can be confronted in play therapy and lasting resolutions can be discovered, rehearsed, mastered and adapted into lifelong strategies.

What to Expect in Play Therapy?

The first session will be a parent meeting to discuss the child’s background, current issues, and the child’s needs. The therapist and parent will work together to determine how current issues are impacting daily life. The second and third sessions are focused on the child for the therapist to build a relationship with the child. The fourth session is usually a parent meeting after the therapist has met with the child. This meeting allows for discussion of the plan for counseling, possible resources that may be available, and to give the parent direction on changes that can be implemented at home to help their child with accomplishing the goals of counseling. Subsequent sessions are with the child to continue working on goals. After the initial sessions, the therapist or parent will schedule parent meetings when necessary.

Who Benefits from Play Therapy?

Although everyone benefits, play therapy is especially appropriate for children ages 3 through 12 years old. Teenagers and adults have also benefited from play techniques and recreational processes. To that end, use of play therapy with adults within mental health, agency, and other healthcare contexts is increasing. In recent years, play therapy interventions have also been applied to infants and toddlers.

How Will Play Therapy Benefit A Child?

Play therapy helps children:

  • Become more responsible for behaviors and develop more successful strategies.

  • Develop new and creative solutions to problems.

  • Develop respect and acceptance of self and others.

  • Learn to experience and express emotion.

  • Cultivate empathy and respect for thoughts and feelings of others.

  • Learn new social skills and relational skills with family.

  • Develop self-efficacy and thus a better assuredness about their abilities.

How Long Does Play Therapy Take?

Each play therapy session varies in length but usually last about 30 to 50 minutes. Sessions are usually held weekly. Research suggests that it takes an average of 10-20 play therapy sessions to resolve the problems of the typical child referred for treatment. Of course, some children may improve much faster while more serious or ongoing problems may take longer to resolve.

Who Can Practice Play Therapy?

The practice of play therapy requires extensive specialized education, training, and experience. A play therapist is a licensed mental health professional who has earned a Master's or Doctorate degree in a mental health field with considerable general clinical experience and supervision.

Pre-Teens and Adolescents

For pre-teens and adolescents, counseling incorporates the child’s interests and corresponds with the emotional and developmental level of the child. Games, markerboard activities, workbooks may be incorporated to provide a relaxed environment for the child to explore the reasons they are in counseling. Whether the child is struggling with school, friends, parents, decision-making, or other concerns, counseling can help them to explore new ways of thinking and reacting, while providing parents with resources to support their child in maturing.